With the start of a new year, I made a promise – the weekends will not be spent with work unless strictly necessary.
This was a promise to myself, first. Late in November I had a photoshoot scheduled with my photographer, Valerie. We were supposed to re-shoot tons of things – all my sock patterns, all my shawl patterns… and on the Saturday I woke up with gastritis and unable to stand up. That’s some scary stuff. I have suffered from gastritis here and there, mostly when I’m stressed. While it’s uncomfortable (dull ache in the stomach when eating, minimum appetite), I can keep going with it. But this time my bones were bust. My hips screamed whenever I tried to stand up. That weekend, photoshoot cancelled, I slept over 30 hours in 2 days. I was exhausted.
That, plus the need to ensure my relationship lasts. Sure, we’re getting married and love each other to no end, but the fact is, I was spending ALL of Saturday and ALL of Sunday working. I needed to wake up and realize that we need time together at the weekends.
We’ve adjusted certain things – now we split our shopping between Saturday and Sunday, which makes us go for walks, trot around the shops and not worry about work all the time. I’ve also, as admitted above, stopped all-but-required work on weekends. I will read emails, not respond until Monday. I will do a bit of social media marketing, but not constant tweeting/Fb-ing. I will do other crafts to keep my hands busy so I don’t go crazy, but will not work unless I have a looming deadline.
I’m pretty good at keeping deadlines given that I knit so fast (the VK jumper in sport-weight yarn was done in 4 days), so that shouldn’t be a huge issue. And so it is that I’ve rediscovered sewing.
A while ago, when I was still working at the haberdashery shop, I purchased some Vogue sewing patterns when we had the sale, and one of them was this…

I so wanted to make it, and you’d think finding wool to sew a coat from, living in the UK, would be easy? Nope. So I waited.
When we decided to get married in March, when it’s still definitely winter in here – I saw another opportunity. Once I bought my dress I knew I couldn’t use a very colourful fabric for the coat, and on my Los Angeles trip I found the fabric – black wool, thick enough to be a coat, and with sparkles!! I got my buttons from the same place too, and those ARE a real show-stopper.

This really crappy photo taken from my iPad shows you the progress...
The lining is houndstooth black and white – I was going for a plain lining, but Brian (who knows me very well) said “well… it’s not like you’re going conservative in the dress, the coat, the ceremony… why not go out of the ordinary in the coat lining too?
And he’s right!
Now of course I’ve one of those SEW ALL THE THINGS moments – I realised I have a whole dress cut and ready to go, I wanted to make a certain shirt, a skirt, a top, a pair of linen trousers…
ALL. THE. THINGS!



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